So how do we become a better version of our former self?
The answer is not so simple, yet I believe that by following a few simple guidelines, we can all become better men than we were before.
- Foster healthy relationships. Play in a team every now and then, even if you think you are a lone wolf, and learn how to respect, protect and stand up for those in your team.
- Call your mom and dad often. They miss you and may be gone before you know it.
- Set a good example for your children. They are watching your every move even if you don’t think so.
- Never react. Ever. Keep your cool. Delete that email that you just wrote in anger.
- Keep a secret. No ifs ands or buts.
- Have dreams. And pursue them.
- Open the door for your loved ones. And try it with a stranger sometimes. You’ll be amazed.
- Be kind to strangers, especially children. A simple act of kindness is remembered long after it’s done.
- Always keep a handkerchief in your pocket. Its not for you, its for your partner. And make sure you aren’t the cause of the tears.
- Seek out mindfulness. Prayer, meditation or just being still in your presence helps regain focus and dispels negativity.
- Remember that you are not only marrying the person; you are marrying their family too.
- Manners maketh man.
- Be generous, but never lend our your partner, your car or your golf clubs. And don’t ask to borrow those.
- Travel often. Sometimes on your own, sometimes with loved ones. Experience new things.
- Give time and not money. Give something that cannot be returned or gotten back.
- Play a sport. It doesn't matter what sport. The idea is to challenge yourself.